Phi was really cute ("What's an illustrator?") and really talkative which Elissa said was unusual--it usually takes her a while to warm up to strangers. I completely offered myself for babysitting, since APU gives me so few hours and because this family is obviously doing something great with this kid--I think I'd have more fun babysitting her than she would being babysat lol. Also, right after we pulled away from the coffee house I realized we didn't get a pic of me, Elissa and Phi. I was disappointed but hopefully this won't be the last time we see each other =)
Then we went cake tasting. Beyond being completely overwhelming, I can't have chocolate on the outside because of temperature? I don't really know but it wasn't doable. So I don't know. I just don't feel like I'm the right type of girl for weddings. The marriage is the most important thing to me, and spending so much money on a day that is one day out of my whole life just seems frivolous. I've never cared about appearances or anything like that so it's hard for me to give a crap about various details. Hope it turns out ok and I hope I'm not sick of it before it gets here.
