Saturday, February 28, 2009

I know you all want to hear Ben's voice on this one too...

*What are your middle names?
Ann and Scott-I concur

*How long have you been together?
4 years, since my Senior year in high school. By the time we get married it will be almost 5!

*How long did you know each other before you started dating?
We have known of each other since Middle School but we started working together about 2 years before we started dating.

*Who asked who out?
Ben definitely asked me out. He was so shy when he did it (Chipotle before play practice)!-I like to think of it as being "cautious." And I wasn't sure if she liked to eat food.

*Whose siblings do you see the most?
Even though we live in different states, we definitely see mine more, since Ben's brother lives in Boston.

*Do you have any children?
Nope! But we can't wait to start a family when we move back to Cali! Not that either of us know of.

*What about pets?
Neither of us are big animal people...

*Which situation is hardest on you as a couple?
Right now it's definitely the distance. Even though we've done this for three years, it doesn't really get any easier! At least not until recently. We're in the homestretch now!

*Did you go to school together?
Middle and High School

*Are you from the same hometown?
Kind of, same area

*Who is the smartest?
We're both pretty smart, but I'd have to say him. He's more booksmart than I could ever hope to be! My kids will be born smarter than me, I'm sure. Clearly, she's emotionally smarter. Booksmarts are overrated. Our kids are going to be a world of compassionate, and it's all coming from her.

*Who's the most sensitive?
I'd have to say me, my feelings get hurt easily and I take things personally.

*Where do you eat out most as a couple?
When we're together I'd have to say Freebirds (employee discount!!)

*Who has the craziest ex?
Huh. I think we both know we tie in this area. Don't let her lie to you. She does.

*Who has the worse temper?
I don't really think either of us has a temper, but if we're talking about which one gets the most frustrated first, it'd be me. She does.

*Who does the cooking?
Ben will, since it's a passion of his. He LOVES to grill. Unless we're eating enchiladas. <3

*Who is more social?
We both have the same personality this way--we both can carry on a conversation at a party with people we don't know, but we'd rather not. We're content with each other and other anti-social people =)

*Who is the neat freak?
LOL Ben, absolutely, but only with a few particulars. Like shoes on my bed.

*Who is more stubborn?
No question, Me. Definitely me.

*Where was your first date?
Chipotle, in Redlands.

*Who has the bigger family?
Me, by 4. A biased question. I have the quieter family. Isn't that work anything?

*Do you get flowers often?
Yes! Ben is really great about this. Never ='(

*How do you spend the holidays?
Right now we do all three families in one day. Not sure how this year will work. Wrapping presents in our amazing new wrapping paper and decorating our apartment in our new discount decorations. We win.

*Who is more jealous?
? I don't really think this has been a problem. Me. For sure.

*How long did it take to get serious?
Maybe a year? I think after a year we both knew we were in it for good. About a week. When you find one this good you gotta lock it up.

*Who eats more?
Ben By about a monster and a half.

*Who's better with the computer?
We work well together: I'm better with Macs and he's better with PCs. I'm better with computers, she's better with Facebook.

*Who drives when you are together?
Ben, most of the time. Driving can make me nervous. Me, with lots of coaching from her.

1 comment:

  1. i could find your email either! Mine is elissalerma@gmail.com. And how freakin cool is it that "look at me eyes. I'm busy" is a catch phrase at your place. Seriously that is so cool. Thanks for the compliment on raising The Phi. She is our first and only child so we are just flying by the seat of our pants on this whole parenting thing. Oh and The Phi has a message for you and your roommate...

    http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=87kW9IwsvZw

    -Elissa
    aka The Phi's Mom.

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